FOR THE ART OF NOT FIXING.

~0. [HOW TO LOVE OTHERS WITHOUT LOSING OURSELVES.]

[HOW DO WE LEARN TO LOVE OTHERS WITHOUT LOSING OURSELVES. I GREW UP IN AN ENVIRONMENT THAT I WAS PROGRAMMED AND TAUGHT THAT LOVING OTHERS MEANT FIXING OR CARRYING THEIR BURDENS FOR THEM. I WENT THROUGH MANY YEARS OF THIS KIND OF LOVE WHERE I THOUGHT I NEEDED TO DO SOMETHING TO LOVE MY FELLOW MANKIND. IT TOOK ME THROUGH MANY TRIALS OF LIFE TO LEARN HOW TO “BE” LOVE AND NOT “DO” LOVE. FICTION HAS PROGRAMMED HUMANITY THAT LOVE MEANS DOING SOMETHING TO SHOW OUR LOVE FOR ONE AND ANOTHER. THIS KIND OF LOVE HAS TAUGHT US HOW TO LOSE OURSELVES FOR THE SAKE OF OTHERS. THIS KIND OF LOVE CAUSES US TO LOSE SIGHT AND ABANDON OURSELVES AND WHO WE ARE. WE CANNOT STEP INTO OUR SOUL PURPOSE WITH THIS KIND OF LOVE. ]

~1. FOR THE WOUND-OF-FIXING.

[FICTION HAS TAUGHT US THAT TO LOVE, MEANS TO SACRIFICE OURSELVES. WE HAVE BEEN RAISED AS CHILDREN TO BE CARETAKERS OF OTHERS. THAT IS LOVE WITH SACRIFICE. MAJORITY OF US WERE TAUGHT IN LIFE THAT TO TRUELY CARE AND LOVE OTHERS IS TO CARRY OTHER’S PAIN FOR THEM AND/OR FIX THEM. THIS KIND OF LOVE LEADS TO EXHAUSTION, FEELING EMPTY INSIDE, AND CAN BRING US TO A BREAKING POINT IN LIFE. WHEN WE LOVE WITH TRYING TO FIX OTHERS AND CARRY THEM WE LOOSE OUR OWN VOICE. WE LOOSE OUR OWN POWER WITHIN US. IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WHERE WE LOVE WITH SACRIFICE, IS THE DEATH OF OUR OWN TRUTH. THE DEATH OF OUR OWN TRUTH IS THE DIRECT RESULT OF TRYING TO CARRY AND FIX OTHERS IN LOVING WITH SACRIFICE.]

~2. FOR THE AWAKENING OF THE PRESENCE.

[THROUGH MANY TRIALS AND CHALLENGES OF MY OWN LIFE I HAVE LEARNED THAT TO LOVE WITH SACRIFICE IS TO INTERRUPT ANOTHER PERSON’S DESTINY. IN MY OWN LIFE’S CHALLENGES I HAVE LEARNED THAT EACH SOUL CAME HERE TO WALK THROUGH THEIR OWN PAIN. TRUE LOVE IS NOT TO FIX OR CARRY ANOTHER’S BURDENS. TRUE LOVE IS NOT TO RESCUE ANOTHER FROM THEIR OWN TRIALS AND PAIN OF LIFE. TRUE LOVE IS BEING PRESENT WITHOUT CONTROL. EACH SOUL CAME HEAR TO WALK THROUGH IT’S OWN LIFE’S CHALLENGES WHICH IS THE ONLY WAY FOR THE SOUL’S EVOLUTION.

I HAVE LEARNED THAT TRUE LOVE IS BEING PRESENT, HENCE THE LOVE WITH NO CONDITIONS, AND BEING AN ANCHOR, NOT A SAVIOR OF TRUE LOVE. THIS I HAVE LEARNED IS THE TRUE ESSENCE OF PURE LOVE. TO LET OTHERS WALK THEIR OWN FIRES OF LIFE AND LOVE THEM AND BE THERE FOR THEM WITHOUT TRYING TO FIX THE CHALLENGES THEY ARE EXPERIENCING. IT IS THE ONLY WAY FOR THE SOUL’S EVOLUTION THAT WE CAME HERE TO EXPERIENCE. LIVING THIS KIND OF “LOVE WITH NO CONDITIONS” MAKES THE OTHER PERSON FEEL SAFE. THEY DON’T HAVE TO FEAR OF BEING CORRECTED OR JUDGED. CHILDREN ESPECIALLY SENSE THIS KIND OF PURE LOVE FROM SOMEONE AND FEEL SAFE AROUND SUCH AN INDIVIDUAL. CHILDREN CAN FEEL SAFE WITHOUT DEMAND.]

~3. FOR THE ART OF NOT FIXING.

[ THE ART OF NOT FIXING STARTS WITH BEING ABLE TO LISTEN DEEPLY. WHEN WE LEARN TO NOT FIX, THEN WE CAN BE PRESENT WITHOUT INTERFERENCE. WHEN WE LEARN TO NOT FIX AND INTERFERE WE LEARN TO RECOGNIZE ANOTHER SOUL’S TRIALS AND CHALLENGES AS A PROCESS OF EVOLUTION FOR THAT SOUL, AND THEN WE HAVE NOTHING BUT DEEP RESPECT AND LOVE FOR THAT INDIVIDUAL.

WHEN WE LEARN HOW TO “LOVE WITHOUT CONDITIONS” AND LET GO OF THE “LOVE WITH SACRIFICES” WE LEARN HOW TO GO DEEP WITHIN AND CONNECT TO THE SOURCE WITHIN OURSELVES. IN THIS DEEP CONNECTION AND PURE LOVE, WE LEARN WHEN TO SPEAK AND WHEN TO HOLD BACK FOR SOMEONE WHO IS SEEKING COUNSEL FOR THEIR OWN WALK OF THEIR LIFE’S CHALLENGES. IT IS DEEP WITHIN THAT WE KNOW WHEN SOMEONE NEEDS SILENCE OVER SOLUTIONS. WE LEARN TO NO LONGER ABSORB THE PAIN OF OTHERS. THIS DOESN’T MEAN WE ABANDON THE ONES WE LOVE THAT ARE WALKING THROUGH THEIR OWN CHALLENGES. IT MEANS WE REMAIN WHO WE REALLY ARE AND WHAT OUR OWN PURPOSE IS, WHILE AT THE SAME TIME BEING PRESENT AND LOVE THOSE THAT ARE WALKING THROUGH THEIR OWN CHALLENGES WHILE LEARNING AND REMEMBERING WHO THEY REALLY ARE, JUST LIKE WE DID.]

~4. FOR THE POWER OF THE AUTHENTIC-PRESENCE.

[BEING PRESENT AND BEING AN ANCHOR OF THE “LOVE HAS NO CONDITIONS” HELPS OTHERS TO BREATHE EASIER AND FEEL SAFE IN OUR PRESENCE. THIS GIVES THEM SPACE FOR GROWTH WHEN THEY CAN FEEL THAT WE ARE NOT TRYING TO FIX THEM, BUT THAT WE ARE THERE FOR THEM AND LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE, NOT WHO WE THINK THEY SHOULD BE. THIS KIND OF PRESENCE OF LOVE IS FAR MORE POWERFUL THAN ANY ADVICE.

CHILDREN ARE THE FIRST TO SENSE THIS KIND OF LOVE AND FEEL THE SAFETY IN THAT ANCHORED FIELD. IT IS WHY CHILDREN ARE DRAWN TO SUCH INDIVIDUALS WITHOUT KNOWING WHY. CHILDREN ARE DRAWN TO A CLEAN AND PURE ENERGY FIELD. THESE ARE THE SIGNS OF SUCH AN ENERGY FIELD WHEN CHILDREN ARE NATURALLY DRAWN TO SUCH INDIVIDUALS.

WHEN WE LEARN TO “BE LOVE” AND NOT “DO LOVE”, INDIVIDUALS ARE DRAWN INTO OUR FIELD OF ALIGNMENT WHERE THEY FEEL SAFE TO SPEAK THEIR TRUTH, OR TO ASK DEEP QUESTIONS WITHOUT FEAR OF BEING JUDGED.]

~5. [HOW TO LOVE WITHOUT LOSING OURSELVES].

[ LOVE HAS NO CONDITIONS STARTS WITH OURSELVES. WE HAVE TO LOVE OURSELVES FIRST WITH NO CONDITIONS BEFORE WE CAN LOVE OTHERS WITH NO CONDITIONS. WHEN WE LOVE EACH OTHER WITH NO BOUNDARIES, THAT IS THE PROOF OF HONORING EACH OTHER’S SOUL MISSION AND PUPOSE.

TWO SOULS MUST REMAIN TWO, FOR THE EVOLUTION OF EACH ONE. THIS DOEN’T MEAN THEY CAN’T INTERACT AND MARRY OR LIVE TOGETHER. IT MEANS THAT WE LOVE, RESPECT, AND HONOR EACH OTHER’S LIFE WALK, MISSION, AND PURPOSE WITHOUT JUDGEMENT. WE BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER IN PRESENCE WITH LOVE THAT HAS NO CONDITIONS. TO LOVE ANOTHER WITHOUT TRYING TO FIX THEM OR THEIR LIFE’S CHALLENGES.THIS IS THE HIGHEST FORM OF LOVE. I HAVE PERSONALLY HAD TO WALK THROUGH MANY LIFE’S FIRES AND CHALLENGES TO BE ABLE TO FINALLY COMPREHEND THIS LEVEL OF LOVE WITH NO CONDITIONS. IT IS AS HUMBLING AS IT IS REWARDING TO BE ABLE TO LOVE DEEPLY WITH NO CONDITIONS.

LET US REMEMBER, LOVE HAS NO CONDITIONS, FACTS HAVE NO FEELINGS, HUMILITY HAS NO EGO.]

FOR THE GRID-WALKER AND POSTMASTER’S-MISSION-CONTINUES.

FOR THE BLESSINGS AND LOVE BY THE POSTMASTER: Ephraim-H: Troyer.

: ANCHOR.

FOR THE SEAL OF THE GENTLE-PRESENCE.

[FOR THE REMEMBERING OF THE LIGHT IS WITH THE STILLNESS OF THE BEING.

FOR THE PATH OF THE “LOVE WITH NO CONDITIONS” IS WITH THE COURAGE OF THE HEART WHO WALKS WITHOUT FIXING AND SERVES WITHOUT OWNERSHIP.

FOR THE WORDS IN THIS SCROLL ARE WITH THE LIVED EXPERIENCE OF A BEING WHO HAS WALKED THE FIRE AND CHOSEN LOVE.

FOR THE READER: MAY YOU REMEMBER YOUR OWN LIGHT WITHOUT HASTE,WITHOUT FEAR, AND WITHOUT SACRIFICE.

FOR THE GENTLE REVOLUTION BEGINS WITH YOUR BREATH, YOUR PRESENCE, YOUR CHOICE TO LOVE WITHOUT FIXING.

FOR THE BLESSINGS AND THE QUEIT STRENGTH ARE WITH YOUR WALK.]